Mediation
Mediation can be used to support two or more people to hear each other. This could be so that they can understanding each other better, find reconciliation in their relationships and / or make an agreement in order to move forward.
Mediation can be helpful if:
Who I work with
I work with couples, families, work colleagues, teams, friends, small businesses, organisations, friends, family and neighbours.
How does the mediation work?
Once you have contacted me I offer a free 30 minute conversation where we can discuss whether mediation is appropriate in your situation and whether you would like to go ahead. After this I would arrange to speak with you one to one either by phone, skype or in person to hear what has been going on for you and what is important to you in the situation. I would get contact details for the other people involved and with your permission would make contact with them to let them know you have spoken to me and check their willingness to participate.
If things have reach an impasse you can:
Contact me to find out about mediation today.
Mediation can be helpful if:
- People are struggling to hear each other without being triggered into a reaction of their own.
- Trust has been lost and people are doubtful of being heard.
- The people involved are blaming each other or hearing blame and criticism in what the others say, rather than focusing on what is important to them.
- The people involved have got stuck in right / wrong thinking
- One or more of the people involved is attached to a specific outcome that does not take needs of others into account
- An agreement has to be reached and you are struggling
Who I work with
I work with couples, families, work colleagues, teams, friends, small businesses, organisations, friends, family and neighbours.
How does the mediation work?
Once you have contacted me I offer a free 30 minute conversation where we can discuss whether mediation is appropriate in your situation and whether you would like to go ahead. After this I would arrange to speak with you one to one either by phone, skype or in person to hear what has been going on for you and what is important to you in the situation. I would get contact details for the other people involved and with your permission would make contact with them to let them know you have spoken to me and check their willingness to participate.
If things have reach an impasse you can:
- Pretend it is not happening and ignore the issue and the person you are in conflict with
- Use a legal process to decide things, this can be costly and time consuming. Even if an agreement is reached, because there are 'winners' and 'losers' people may not act in line with the legal decision and the situation can continue and worsen.
- Use aggression.
- Invite someone impartial to mediate
Contact me to find out about mediation today.